Themes

Loneliness and connection

The theme of loneliness and connection is central to Nick Hornby's novel About a Boy. The story explores how the characters struggle with different forms of loneliness and isolation and the ways in which they form connections with others.

At the beginning of the novel, Will is shallow and self-absorbed and this keeps him from forming meaningful connections with other people. He defines himself by his lack of responsibilities and his pursuit of a carefree, leisurely lifestyle. He intentionally avoids forming deep connections with others to protect his freedom. However, his self-imposed isolation leaves him feeling empty and disconnected from the world. He's disconnected from his family and lacks meaningful relationships: “loving people, and allowing yourself to be loved, was only worth the risk if the odds were in your favour” (Chapter 18, 78%). 

Will’s interactions with Marcus and his growing affection for Rachel challenge his self-centered worldview. Moreover, Rachel’s plan to get Will to talk to Fiona and help her with her depression also shows to him the importance of connection: “ ‘I think I probably need to talk to somebody, and you’re the only one here’...